A wedding proposal is one of the most important questions that a couple will experience in their lives. But after the proposal, there’s still one big question that needs to be asked: ‘Will you be my Best Man?’. Indeed, choosing a Best Man is a rather big decision, as the Best Man duties can have a significant impact on your wedding.
A Best Man is there to provide emotional support in the lead up to the wedding day. The obvious choice is usually a close friend or family member of the groom. Their presence should help the groom feel more comfortable and confident, knowing that someone is taking care of a list of tasks as they plan their big day.
If you’re wondering what a Best Man actually does, we’re here to help. We’ve put together a list of Best Man duties to help you find the right fit for your big day!
Pre-Wedding Best Man Duties
One of the most important tasks that is associated with the Best Man is the bachelor party. The Best Man is usually responsible for planning and coordinating the event, so it’s important to know what style of bachelor party the groom wants to have. The Best Man duties include booking a venue, managing guest lists, collecting money for gifts, ordering catering, organising entertainment and ensuring everyone is having a good time – especially the groom!
Apart from the bachelor party, the Best Man will also help to organise the groomsmen’s attire, coordinate groomsmen responsibilities and handle logistics for the wedding rehearsal.
On the Wedding Day: Best Man Duties
Once the wedding day arrives, the Best Man will be with the groom from start to finish. They will assist the groom with getting ready, ensuring that they are looking picture-perfect for the occasion. Usually, they will travel to the venue together with the groomsmen, and help to greet guests upon their arrival. As the couple say ‘I do’, the Best Man will stand by the groom’s side and hold the wedding ring during the ceremony.
Choosing a reliable Best Man is crucial, as they will be the first point of contact for the groom in case any last-minute tasks arise. They will be there to provide support and guidance and carry out any tasks that the groom may need.
Moreover, the Best Man will collect wedding gifts during the wedding reception, and keep them stored away safely.
Last but not least of the Best Man’s duties is the wedding speech. The best man usually gives a speech during the wedding reception, in which he shares stories and well-wishes for the newly-wed couple.
How to Choose your Best Man
Choosing a Best Man can be an easy decision for some, while others may struggle to find the right fit. If there’s an ‘obvious’ choice that comes to mind when thinking about a Best Man, that is usually the right choice. This can be a brother, a cousin or a childhood best friend. However, it’s not about how long you’ve known the person or whether or not you’re blood relatives. Most importantly, it should be someone who you feel has been there for you throughout significant moments in your life.
Ideally, your Best Man will be someone who knows how to take the lead. He will be well acquainted with your groomsmen and family, and have your best interests at heart.
Finally, your Best Man should be someone who can get things done. The last thing you want is to have to take over tasks such as planning the bachelor party or paying your service providers on your wedding day. Since you will be entrusting logistical and financial tasks to your Best Man, you should choose someone who takes action rather than procrastinates or complains!
Have you got your Best Man duties sorted? Now’s the time to get planning!
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